Great relationships are built on trust. When trust in a relationship is at stake, so many things are bound to go wrong.
But how will you know that indeed your partner is cheating on you and not mere suspicion? Yes, sometimes you may think your partner is guilty of infidelity, but in reality, they’re not. And you know the effects that can have on your relationship, right?
Luckily, there are a lot of signs to look out for if you suspect your partner is a cheater. Even so, some people decide to seek help from a tarot reader when they suspect their spouse is cheating on them.
A tarot card reading for cheating can help get an insight into what is going on between you and your spouse. However, remember no one knows about your relationship better than you and your partner. Therefore, it is up to you how you process the information.
Getting a tarot reading for cheating can be the start of a long fact-gathering mission. Here are some signs that your spouse may be cheating on you:
1. Changed Appearance
We all care about our appearance, but if your partner suddenly starts to improve their appearance, then you may have a reason to worry. And this can be in many forms.
For instance, your partner may start being cautious of their weight and diet, or even their body shape and clothing. While this can be due to other reasons, sometimes it can be a sign that they want to appear attractive to another person.
Yes, sometimes they may be doing it for you or themselves. And since you know your better half more than anyone else, you can come with better judgment.
2. Lack of Intimacy
Are you feeling distanced from you’re your partner? When is the last time you were intimate with each other? Well, while there’s no definite guide into the frequency of sex in a relationship, sometimes these changes can mean something is wrong in your relationship.
If there’s no disagreement between you and you’re feeling detached from each other, then infidelity might be the reason. Your partner might be seeing another person, and so they don’t feel your need anymore.
Sometimes it is the opposite. Your partner may be more attentive to you in bed to ensure you don’t suspect they’re cheating. As earlier said, you’re the player and knows the field better.
3. Hiding their Phone and Computer Use
if you suddenly realize that your partner is guarding their phone and computer more than they used to, then it may be a sign that they’re cheating on you. Cheaters tend to change the password on their devices to ensure that no one discovers their plans.
You also need to be suspicious if our partner deletes their messages or clears their browsing history. If your partner never lets you touch their phone, that could also be a good sign.
4. Their Friends Are Cheating
Most often we attract people of our kind. To that end, if your partner’s friends are cheaters, there’s a high possibility that your partner will cheat on you too. After all, when a person is exposed to the same behavior for a long time, they are likely to pick it up.
However, don’t label your partner a cheater just because their friends cheat. Sometimes your partner may be the one to encourage the other to stop cheating.
5. Change in Interests
Love has a lot to do with our interests. As such, you should be wary if your partner suddenly starts showing new interests.
If you notice habit change in your partner, you should go ahead and ask them why. Sometimes their habit changes maybe because they’re seeing another person.
6. They Claim You’re Unfaithful
Your partner can also accuse you of cheating in a bid to discourage you from questioning their behavior. They will go ahead to talk about fidelity so that you may not doubt them.
7. Sudden Changes in Their Spending Habits
If you notice unexplained expenses in your partner’s accounts or credit cards, it might be a sign that there’s something fishy in your relationship.
If your partner can’t give a satisfactory answer when you ask them, there’s a possibility that they are in another relationship. Infidelity is costly, and this can explain why you see the many unexplained expenses.