7 tricks guaranteed to give your date a romantic spark.
When it comes to dating, you’ve always got to be on your A game. No matter if it’s your first date, or you’re treating your partner to an anniversary night out, romance is an essential.
That said, sometimes it can be daunting, and you may not have all the tricks up your sleeve. From flirtatious conversations to the sexy underwear you put on, here are 7 proven tricks to use when romance is on your to-do list.
Deciding what to do on your date is by far the most important thing to consider.
First you need to set your boundaries, will it be a cute picnic in the park or are we spicing things up with an Italian restaurant in the city? You want to choose something that will give you the chance to flirt with your date and that you can experience together. You want them rushing to their friends the next day explaining how “he took me here” and how it was utterly romantic.
Look presentable! Shower, brush your teeth, shave in all the necessary places, look the part.
Choosing the right outfit for the night can be a tricky thing. It can depend on the type of date, how old you are, the time of day, weather, and the vibe you want to give off. Everyone had their own style and clothing is a great way to let your personality shine, keeping it a little on the sexy side really makes a difference. Not only does this show that you’ve put the effort in for one another, but it can be a great way to set the mood.
Creating romance is all about your actions, and also how you warm up to the other person. A few sexy gestures will spice up your time together. Placing your hand on their lower back to help her through the crowd or gently placing your hand on their thigh when sitting next to each other. Be flirty! Gentle kisses, holding hands, it’s all romantic!
Simple, sweet, and sometimes sexy. Complimenting your date is definitely something you should be doing. Treat each compliment delicately and wait until the time is right. Each compliment should be special, so try not to overuse opportunities to get your date blushing.
Make sure it’s a two-way conversation. Express yourself, bring up times you’ve have had fun with each other previously, let them know you remember and think about them. One easy way to show your interest is to ask questions; this will make your date feel special and is something your will both enjoy.
• What did you think of me when you first met me?
• When did you know you were falling for me?
• What’s the most romantic trip you dream of going on?
Don’t be afraid to answer them too…
I’m not saying you have to splash all your savings in one go, but if you do decide you want to treat your date to something special, a gift can be the perfect romantic gesture. I’m not talking about the essentials like paying for the taxi, or offering to pay the meal, I’m talking about a really well thought out gift that is sure to make them smile.Agreeing on bringing gifts for each other is a wonderful thing, but surprising your date is so much romantic. Flowers, chocolate, jewellery, a handcrafting photo album, whatever you feel will make them smile, do it!
Agreeing on bringing gifts for each other is a wonderful thing, but surprising your date is so much romantic. Flowers, chocolate, jewellery, a handcrafting photo album, whatever you feel will make them smile, do it!
But here’s the trick. It’s not just about what you get; it’s how you present it that will transform that gift into a loving gesture. Go the extra mile, arrange for the gift’s arrival, or plan to surprise your date when she gets home. Wrap it up in a gift box, and add the finishing touch with a pre written love note. I’m already starting to fall in love with myself with these ideas!
If you feel really confident, you might fancy treading into dangerously romantic territory with buying them a dress/outfit for the night. This is guaranteed to create an everlasting spark between you. You’re sure to get a kiss!
Get your dessert to-go.
You may be wondering, why? Well it may seem like a random thought, but if you decided to take your gorgeous date for a meal, a romantic trick is to take your dessert to-go. Walking and eating ice cream together is surprisingly, very adorable. If you prefer to head back to his/hers after, you might want to watch a movie together while eating your desserts This simple dating trick will go a very long way.
Music is your right-hand man when it comes to romance. Pop a bottle of wine with Michael Buble, maybe a bit of Bruno Mars, set up a playlist of their favourite love songs and get ready to slow dance in the rain. Timing is everything, when you may be settling down to watch the sunset go down, or and perhaps you’re both moving closer towards the bedroom, music is gold dust.
Step your bedroom game up
Now you’ve been a romantic charmer all night, you’ve built up so much passion, romantic tension, and it’s time you’ve both decided to kick your shoes off and head towards the bedroom. Set the scene, gently scatter some gentle rose petals, light some candles pop some champagne and make sure you’ve got your sexy underwear on. Your romantic side is going to flourish!